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Monday, February 11, 2013

I’ve mentioned before on the blog that I’m the chairman of the board of alumni trustees of the Columbia Daily Spectator, Columbia University’s student newspaper. I was the arts and entertainment editor at Spectator in 1988. As one of the trustees, I now advise the students on a variety of issues and promote the newspaper’s long-term interests.

Every February, Spectator has an awards dinner. The dinner is held in February shortly after one student managing board exits and a new one comes in. In this case, the 136th board was passing the torch to the 137th. I was a little concerned about the snowstorm known as Nemo, but New York City escaped the worst of it and we had a full house at the Columbia University Club for our keynote speaker Margaret Sullivan, the first female public editor for the New York Times.


From left: Margaret Sullivan; Spec’s 136th editor in chief, Sarah Darville; and MrB.

Two awards were presented to students and two to alumni. The Brian K. Malmon Award went to Spectator’s Derek Arthur, a deputy multimedia editor, in recognition of the support and good cheer he provides to his colleagues. The Quintana Roo Dunne Award for Visual Achievement — presented by Whitney Johnson, director of photography at the New Yorker — was given to Henry Willson, Spec’s 136th photo editor (Quintana was photo editor on my managing board, the 112th. I coordinated with Quintana’s mother, author and essayist Joan Didion, to create the memorial award in 2011.) Attorney Bernard Nussbaum was recognized for extraordinary service to Spectator. Bernie, who graduated from Columbia in 1958, served as the editor in chief on Spectator’s 81st board.  Among his other achievements, he was White House Counsel under President Clinton. Bernie has been a key part of Spectator’s fundraising effort to digitize all of its archives, dating back to 1877. Ernest Brod — a longtime member of the board of trustees, former Spectator sports editor and Bernie’s close friend from their days — was responsible for involving Bernie, other members of the class of ’58 and their friends in the digitization project. Bernie isn’t known for being shy, but he turned over the acceptance-speech duties to Ernie.


Ernie on the left, Bernie on the right.

The Lifetime Achievement Award was given to Max Frankel. Max is a 1952 graduate of Columbia College, Spectator’s 75th editor in chief, a Pulitzer Prize winner and the former executive editor at the New York Times.


Max Frankel.

There’s a framed quote from Max hanging in Spectator’s office about how important the paper was to him: “That’s how I chose Columbia: I followed the ink. I reported for duty at the Spectator a full week before the start of classes, an order of priority that remain immutable for four fateful years.” Ha! That priority is pretty typical of the dedicated students who work at Spectator. In my welcoming speech, I assured the parents of the outgoing board members — who are generally in the second half of their senior year — that grade point averages for this final semester should be more impressive than in the past.

It wasn’t part of my speech, but I enjoyed chitchatting during the cocktail hour about my use of the title “chairman.” I’ve written about that here before too. Here’s what I said in 2010 when asked about it by one of the first women to hold a high-level position at Spectator:

Funny you ask about ‘chairman.’ For most of my life, I felt like words had a lot of power over me and I was very particular about using ‘chairwoman’ and other feminized versions of traditional titles. In the past few years — as long as I’ve had my own jewelry design company, probably — I feel like I have the power over the words. Many of my jewelry designs are inspired by and named for female royalty and I am particularly fond of those women who proclaimed themselves ‘emperor‘ or ‘king’ rather than ‘empress‘ or ‘queen.’ I feel like nothing quite says ‘take that, fellas!’ like co-opting the man’s title. That said, when I wrote new bylaws … last year, I used the word “chairperson” to allow my successors to choose for themselves.”

To my amusement, the students — who would normally use the neutral terms “chair” or “chairperson” but were aware of my personal use of “chairman” — assured me that they had checked my blog to figure out how to identify me in the program.

Here’s what a chairman wears to an awards dinner.


What Wendy Wore
Dress: Vintage Jacques Tiffeau (purchased in 2009)
Shoes: Prada (2010)
Jewelry: My own designs
Lip color: Tarte LipSurgence matte lip tint in Lively

I was definitely not the fashion standout of the evening. That was Abby Mitchell in her Anna Della Russo for H&M hat. During cocktails, when I spotted a young lady wearing a large bird on her head, my first thought was, “WTF?” My second thought was, “I! LOVE! IT!” The most startling looks are always my favorite looks. It’s kind of a subset of my “Never Is the Next New Thing™” philosophy. I asked Abby to pose for a photo.



I’m proud to say that Abby was the 136th managing board’s arts and entertainment editor. Look at us arts and entertainment editors! We use politically incorrect titles, wear bird hats … we’re clearly the Marlon Brandos of managing boards. “What are you rebelling against?” “Whaddaya got?”

And not only was the event blessed with the appearance of a feathered headpiece … it also raised the final funds needed to complete Spectator’s part of the digitization project, which has been done in partnership with the Columbia Libraries. Thanks again to all the students, alumni, parents, family, friends and guests who made the night a success.

UPDATED TO ADD: I linked this to Not Dead Yet Style’s Visible Monday post because you can’t beat this shade of green for visibility! Check out other stylish ladies’ looks here.

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23 Responses to “What Wendy Wore: Columbia Spectator Annual Awards Dinner”

  1. Vix says:

    Your dress is gorgeous, I want it! x

  2. Faux Fuchsia says:

    Luff that dress and would steal it if I knew where it was housed.


  3. You are as accomplished as you are glamorous. And the feather headpiece is a work of art.

  4. mystyle says:

    I really love your dress-the colour is awesome! xx

  5. Usually, I’m gobsmacked by your amazing dresses, but Abby’s hat totes out-gobsmacks your dress. Plus, I love, love, love birds, so I probably would have stalked her all night like my cat 😛

    BTW, my swear necklace is my absolute fave piece of jewelry evah. I want to do a blog post that does it justice and doesn’t get me fired, so I’ve been considering its initial debut carefully 😮

  6. Christine says:

    You do a great job every year with this event; how nice to tie the past with the present and future.

    I LOVE that dress on you. Nice to see Abby in a hat. You crazy rebels!


  7. Judith said it well. I’m so proud of you Wendy!

    That Abby is a cutie pie. Her hat is fabulous.

    I like Mr. B’s tie. It looks like those are spirograph shapes. Remember spirograph?

  8. Lyddiegal says:

    You are very visible in that bright green dress and rightly so – you look stunning!

  9. savvy gal says:

    I love the color on you. Now you make me want to wear a lime green Versace dress from years past today.

  10. st says:

    I’m so proud of you! And through it all, you still managed to look impeccable.

  11. Elizabeth says:

    I’m so glad you are involved with the newspaper. Paper. I still love it, even though I love teh ‘netz.

    The green dress is fabulous. I love the neckline, in combination with the paucity of sleeves.

  12. That hat is quite a statement! I love your dress. So lively!

  13. Veshoevius says:

    Wow! You sure are one busy lady! Love your vintage green dress and glad to see there are girls out there willing to wear stand out hats!