Thursday, November 12, 2015
I wasn’t able to update my blog for a few days this week due to some technical problems. It reminded me of the time in 2008 when I was on Blogger and wrongly tagged as spam. I was locked out of my blog for 12 days. I was Frozen Caveman Blogger.
The corporate owner of Blogger who was responsible for identifying me as spam has a name that sounds kind of like “Poodle.”
My blog was deemed spam just two days after I wrote this 2008 post questioning my search results on Poodle. I foolishly identified Poodle by its real name in that first post. I learned my lesson after being put in the deep freeze and since then have only referred to Poodle as Poodle.
But guess who froze me this week? Poodle. Maybe I should call it “Puddle” from now on? I’m open to suggestions.
Monday, November 9, 2015
The last two times I discovered great boob/butt bows on 1stdibs.com were November 2012 and November 2014. It seems like November is officially boob-and-butt-bow month! Maybe it’s because the holidays are coming, and bows look so festive.
Here’s my new find: a boob-bow bustier by one of my favorite designers, Patrick Kelly.
I love the way this one looks like nothing but bow. You could say, “My eyes are up here!” all you want while wearing this, but it wouldn’t help you!
Friday, November 6, 2015
I went to three journalism-related events in eight days last month!
The first was a lunch for the International Women’s Media Foundation’s Courage in Journalism Awards on October 21. The IWMF describes the awards as honoring “women journalists who set themselves apart by their extraordinary bravery,” and this year’s awardees are true heroes.
Mwape Kumwenda of Zambia, a reporter for Muvi Television, was threatened with criminal prosecution for, among other things, her 2013 undercover reporting that exposed the government-sanctioned killings of more than 20 inmates at the Mukobeko Maximum Security Prison. “With this award, I will rise above the unavailability of press freedom and access to information laws,” she told IWMF.
Honduran television journalist Lourdes Ramírez had to flee the country due to death threats, after she reported that an armed gang had taken over Mario Catarino Rivas Hospital in San Pedro Sula with the help of hospital security. (Her team found that gang members were selling the hospital’s supplies on the black market and “hastening the death” of terminally ill patients.) Even though she could have gotten asylum in the U.S. and she was fired from her job for “unauthorized absence,” she returned to Honduras to continue her work. She told IWMF, “I want to continue working as a journalist for as long as I live, despite the risks I have taken and despite the fact that sometimes I feel alone in my desire to bring change to my country, but I’m determined to continue fighting till the end because this I love this job and I think it’s the most beautiful job in the world.”
Freelancer Anna Nemtsova covers Russian and Ukraine for outlets including the Daily Beast and Newsweek. She’s been threatened and kidnapped. When officials attempted to cover up the shoot-down of commercial airliner MH-17 in Ukraine in July 2014, she and two colleagues went to the makeshift morgue, where they were detained, interrogated and threatened for several hours by armed militiamen.
While taking all this in at Cipriani, the home of the Bellini, I had the same kind of thoughts that I usually have at Committee to Protect Journalists events: “What am I doing with my life? I am fucking useless compared to these people.” But then, as I have before, I figured, “At least I’m here to bear witness to their heroism.” I remembered that a lot of folks don’t have the opportunity to see and hear from people like these in the flesh, and that, if nothing else, I can spread the word.
Then I worked up a head of steam over some Twitter comments I’d recently noticed that criticized charities for having big, fancy, fundraising events. I’ve got to assume that those comments come from people who’ve never tried to raise funds for a nonprofit. Obviously, if ALL a so-called charity spends its money on are parties, the whole thing is a scam. But, as long as the funds DO go to the cause, who cares if people put on fancy clothes and drink cocktails as long as they write checks? Not everything can be done online. With thousands of good causes competing for charity dollars, how do you connect with potential donors enough to earn their passionate support? Nothing matches the in-person, face-to-face experience. Nothing. I learned this first-hand when I took over as chairman of the alumni board of the Columbia Daily Spectator, the undergraduate news organization of Columbia University, in 2008. At the time, the annual “alumni” dinner broke even at best. Sometimes it lost money. The below-$100 ticket price just covered the cost of the dinner. Only 50 or 60 people would attend, many of them current students, rather than actual alumni. Part of that was because we had lost contact with most of our alumni. If I recall correctly, the first year I worked on the dinner, 75% of our snail-mail invitations were returned as undeliverable. The students and I threw ourselves into building a new database of alumni contact information. (I literally sat at my computer, Googling alumni for 10 or 12 hours a day, until I hit on one contact who helped us get access to a bigger list after a face-to-face meeting.) Despite complaints from a few alumni who had been attending the budget-priced dinner, I raised the ticket prices for alumni to $250 each, which is still very low for a New York City fundraising dinner. Spectator now regularly has over 200 attendees per dinner, and the increased connection to alumni helped raise the money to digitize Spectator’s archives going back to 1877. Even more spectacularly, the students were able to get the donations to increase work-study funding for Spectator staff. Work-study money ensures that students don’t have to drop out of Spec in order to take less-meaningful jobs just for the money. The student managing board is now reporting that the staff is the most diverse it has ever been, because finances are less likely to interfere with participation. So there you have it: that is how fundraising works. You can’t sit on your ass, thinking about how great you are, and wait for the money to roll in. You have to go out and get it by shaking hands, kissing babies, throwing parties and sometimes dumping ice water over your head. Whatever works.
And now, to spread the word for International Women’s Media Foundation: The organization has an emergency fund that has distributed nearly $75,000 to journalists in need. It covers relocation for women who have received imminent threats against their lives. It also pays for medical aid, such prostheses for 2006 Courage Award winner May Chidiac, who lost her hand and leg to a bomb planted under her car in retaliation for covering politics and corruption in Lebanon. The IWMF says legal assistance is increasingly urgent. “With support from the IWMF, 2012 Courage Award winner from Azerbaijan, Khadija Ismayilova, was able to take action against Internet host and server companies that published video footage used to blackmail her,” reports the IWMF’s website. The organization promises to respond to emergency requests in 48 hours.
As the lunch program pointed out, it’s because of the journalists’ sacrifices that we are able to better understand world events, so if you’ve ever complained about the lack of serious international reporting, here is your chance to help the women on the front lines.
Here’s what I wore to the IWMF lunch. The photo is a very lighting-challenged, but if you look closely, you can see Edward the dog lurking at my feet.
What Wendy Wore to the IWMF Lunch
Sweater and belt: Zang Toi (previously seen here; I have to ask Zang what year this is from)
Skirt: Roland Mouret (pre-2005)
Boots: Louis Vuitton (2014)
Earrings: My own barbed wire hoops
I wasn’t 100% sure about this outfit, but I think the Zang sweater worked better with this skirt and boot combo than the black sweater I wore with them last year. That was horrendous!
Cynthia McFadden of NBC news was one of the presenters (along with Norah O’Donnell of CBS) at the IWMF awards, so I felt like we were old friends when I saw her the next night at a Columbia University event honoring my old pal Dick Wald. Dick was the chairman of the Spectator board for FORTY YEARS before I took over from him, and the reason why I quickly rewrote the Spectator bylaws to include term limits for the chair. I wasn’t ready to commit to 40 years there! Dick retired this year as the Fred W. Friendly Professor of Media and Society at the Columbia Journalism School. He was succeeded in that role by television journalist Betsy West, who, like Cynthia, was there on October 22 to pay tribute to him. The iconic Barbara Walters was also there to roast Dick. “Usually you’ve been helpful,” she told him. She also recalled that over cheap wine at an early 1970s office party, she and Dick discovered they were the only ones who hadn’t seen the almost-mainstream porn movie Deep Throat, so they went together. Barbara said she wore big hat so as not to be recognized, but later found out that people in the movie theater recognized her voice. Why was she talking during the movie? Well, she had some questions!
Dick’s son Jonathan Wald, who works at CNN, also spoke, recalling that his father told him to return every phone call. “If Barbara Walters can do it, you can too,” was dad’s advice. I wish my video of Dick’s funny and touching speech was audible, but it’s not. Dang. Anyway, after toasting Dick, we enjoyed a speech and Q&A with Lester Holt of NBC.
What Wendy Wore to Dick Wald’s Retirement Party
Dress: Versace (possibly 2003)
Purse: Louis Vuitton (2001)
Shoes: Prada “Mohawk” shoes (2010)
Finally, on October 29, I went to the 40th Annual Knight-Bagehot Fellowship Gala at the Marriott Marquis in Times Square. The Knight-Bagehot fellowship is a Columbia University Journalism School program, and I can’t outdo the description of it that I wrote in 2010: “Knight-Bagehot provides to qualified journalists a year-long fellowship in economics and business journalism. After a fellowship, the journalists know how to make a spreadsheet their bitch instead of vice versa.” (I always regret that I didn’t get to do this program during my business-news days because spreadsheets are my sworn enemy.) I was inspired to get out my top hat for this one.
What Wendy Wore to Knight-Bagehot
Jacket: Vintage Christian Francis Roth (purchased on eBay, 2010)
Top: Donna Karan (2015)
Skirt: Libertine (2015)
Shoes: Miu Miu (2010)
Purse: Prada (2007)
Hat: JJ Hat Center (2014)
I got that skirt the day I admired a pink Libertine jacket at Bergdorfs. The jacket wasn’t in my budget but I could manage the skirt — especially because I KNEW it would go well with a top hat.
If you’re a business journalist who wants to become even more of an expert and slay spreadsheets, the program is now accepting applications for the 2016-2017 academic year. Go here to apply! You won’t regret it. It’s a kick-ass program.
Thursday, November 5, 2015
Last year, I declared that big hoop earrings were due for a comeback after the fashion-world frenzy for ear cuffs, ear climbers, earring jackets, “front-back” earrings and mismatched studs. About the latter style, I said, “This look has fashion editors hitting the piercing parlors so they can load up on more studs.” Today, multiple ear piercings are still going so strong that what used to signify rebellion has become pretty basic, and I always keep in mind what Valerie Steele, the director and chief curator of The Museum at the Fashion Institute of Technology, said when I interviewed her for my 2013 Huffington Post story on the surprisingly long life of fashion trends: “When you reach the maximum of whatever it is, the height of your mini or the height of your heel, the pendulum will swing and it will move to something else.”
Sure enough, last Thursday, Erica Blumenthal of the New York Times wrote, “Now that you’ve pierced your ears all the way up the lobe and amassed a collection of tiny personal studs, it turns out that big is back in earrings.” She added, “The most classic way to get in the game is with hoops.”
Sadly, she didn’t include my 2″ hoop earrings in her list of suggestions, so here they are! I’ve got my barbed wire hoops in 18K yellow gold with diamonds …
… and platinum and diamonds.
For bargain hunters, I have ONE pair of silver hoops that were done as a sample for the gold and platinum versions. They’re slightly different from what you see above as far as the closure goes, and they’re not on my website. If you’re interested in buying them for $600, email me at info at wendybrandes dot com and I’ll hook you up.
Of course, you don’t have to get rid of all those single studs that I’ve been selling you since 2012. The Times says, “…take advantage of any single earrings by mixing and matching.” And as I pointed out in my Huffington Post trend piece, plenty of trends exist, and co-exist, for a decade, so mix everything together. Meanwhile, if you’ve become addicted to piercings and your ears are out of fresh territory, the delicate septum piercing is still gathering steam among the très chic peeps. I predict septum jewels won’t be totally standard till next summer or fall. Yep, I have a vision of getting one myself next September, right in time for a New York Times story on middle-aged ladies wearing nose jewelry!
Wednesday, November 4, 2015
It’s been a long time since I’ve done the Halloween ho stroll, to borrow a phrase from the highlarious Michael K of Dlisted. I’m more likely to dress for the holiday as a non-sexy Anne Boleyn, Adam Ant, member of Devo, or random Mod girl.
That said, I figured that for a drinks date on Devil’s Night, I would take advantage of the Halloween vibe to throw on some things that I don’t get to wear every day: green lipstick and faux-garter tights. MrB took a photo after I came home to walk the dogs.
What Wendy Wore
Beret: From somewhere in downtown NYC (2015)
Jacket: Stacy Lomman (2012)
Top: Plein Sud (eBay, 2015)
Shorts: JC de Castelbajac (2013)
Tights: Pretty Polly (2014)
Boots: Jil Sander (probably 2004/2005)
Earrings: My own barbed wire hoops in 18K yellow gold
Lipstick: Bunny by ColourPop
Dog on the left: Edward
Dog on the right: Gigi
A friend asked me what I was dressed as and I said, “Myself.” Seriously! I just felt kind of comfortable in this.
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
I also brought my one-of-a-kind Luna ring, which is set with 1.90 carats of diamonds and a South Sea pearl. Who knew it would look so good next to my full-finger barbed wire ring?! Well, Tanya Dukes of InStore Magazine did.
In between enjoying Prosecco (three glasses for me), cake pops (um, I think I had seven), and platinum manicures by Azature (I already had one by Minx), guests played with the jewelry. That barbed wire ring was my most popular piece. Severine Ferrari of Engagement 101 went for it after her special manicure.
Not everyone at the event was a jewelry expert.
As you can see, I wore the same 2004 Versace skirt and top I wore last Tuesday.
I changed up the shoes, though. It took me a few minutes to decide which of two pairs of platinum shoes looked best with my platinum barbed wire ankle bracelet.
At the party, I enjoyed seeing how well my jewelry designs went with other designers’ pieces. My designing friend Katrina Kelly tried on the Luna ring with her own rings.
Empress Wu was a major inspiration for my Maneater ring collection, and I think this ring combination is definitely fit for an empress. Maybe I can convince Deirdre to participate in an exchange program. One week, she’ll have both rings, and one week I’ll have both rings. Sounds like a good plan, right?
Thanks again to Platinum Guild for having us!
Monday, November 2, 2015
I like to catch Ringo Starr‘s show whenever he’s in town, so I got tickets for his October 31 concert at Kings Theatre in Brooklyn. I figured I’d dress the part of a Beatles fan in the “Mod girl” outfit I’d worn once before for Halloween. It wasn’t until last week that I realized I’d worn that outfit in 2005. I do love a 10-year fashion anniversary, but this one wasn’t even done deliberately!
Dress: Vintage Ossie Clark (purchased in London, probably in summer 2005)
Boots: Reproduction go-go boots (purchased online, probably in 2005)
Hat: Vintage “bubble” hat (purchased online, probably in 2005)
I did change the look a bit with flower-power makeup inspired by the iconic July 1967 Vogue cover photo of Twiggy, which was shot by Richard Avedon. Somehow I didn’t know till reading this blog post that the stylist responsible for the flower makeup was Giorgio di Sant’Angelo, who started his own ready-to-wear clothing line the year before the cover came out.
If only I hadn’t gotten rid of a lot of button-style earrings that I wore in the 1980s! I could have matched Twiggy with those too. At least I saved the clear plastic, dangling earrings that made me feel like ’60s icon Edie Sedgwick.
What Wendy Wore
Lipstick: Coven by Kat Von D
Earrings: Original 1980s pair
Jacket: Stacy Lomman (2012)
I was dismayed that several people thought my flower was a black eye. WTF. I’m saving that look for “zombie Mod girl” in 2025.
It was easy for my designing friend Stacy Lomman to go Mod too. In 2012, she did an entire Mod collection, which included my faux ostrich jacket, seen above.
Ringo looked good, as always. He was doing jumping jacks at the end of the show, which was the last show of his three-year tour with this lineup of his All-Starr Band. Let me point out that this man is 75!
Two members of Bruce Springsteen’s E Street Band joined in for the last song, “With a Little Help From My Friends”: drummer Max Weinberg and Stevie Van Zandt. A couple of days before, Little Steven had interviewed Ringo at the Strand Bookstore. I would have gone if I had known about it.
Rolling Stone had a great story on Ringo in April. Read it here. And here’s a little clip of Ringo looking bouncy during the final number.
It’s good to be Ringo!
Thursday, October 29, 2015
Ten years ago, for Halloween, I dressed as a Mod in an original 1960s Ossie Clark dress and white vinyl bubble hat. The white go-go boots were reproductions.
My hair was shorter then.
MrB was … well, I guess he was a guy wearing a mustache.
Other favorite Halloween throwbacks:
- Diamond Doodles’s 2014 doodles with my skull rings.
- The 2012 cat-o’-lantern.
- The 2011 Rick Ross rap-o’-lantern.
Are you going out this Saturday? Or are you staying in to distribute candy? Do you have good candy? If so, let me know, and I’ll come ring your bell.
Wednesday, October 28, 2015
Thanks to Cindy Edelstein for including my designs in her gallery of Halloween-worthy jewels on National Jeweler! Cindy featured my 18K gold and ruby skull necklace and matching earrings.
Check out the rest of my skull jewelry — and I have plenty! — by clicking here.